Recommendations for your meeting in real.
First of all, we would highly recommend you to go and meet Russian woman in her own country. If you send her money to come and visit you then there is high risk that you will be used by scammers who will take money and disappear. No matter how beautiful or appealing Russian woman is – do not send money! If for some reasons you cannot travel you can help her not sending money directly to her, for example, buying tickets for her, paying for hotel, or compensating her half of her expenses when she comes to you and you see her in real, but do not send money for the people whom you know from internet. Never! Make it your principle and follow it!
When you plan your first meeting first you choose where it should happen. Consider all possible variants and choose the best one. In any case, we recommend you to visit your Russian lady in her own country. In this case you’ll meet her friends, relatives and learn much more about her. Besides, this is safer for you as if you wish your Russian girl to come to meet you in your country, you’ll have to help her with financial side of her visit. And there are many scammers who ask you to send money, for example, for tickets, and then you see no girl in the airport and do not hear from her any more. Such risk exists, so if you still want your girl to come to you, compensate her half of her expenses when she really comes to your country and you meet all right. We highly advise you not to send money to anyone you never met, no matter how convincing and trustworthy your girl sounds.
When you choose to come to your girl’s country it’s better for you to stay in a hotel, not in her apartment. It is just a first meeting and you cannot know how your relations may develop after seeing each other in real. Some people feel comfortable with each other in letters but do not feel well together in real. So if something goes wrong you’ll have a place to stay anyway.
Be careful with all your documents you bring with you. We recommend you to have some copies of important documents and to keep them apart from the originals. It’s wiser to take copies with you if you leave your hotel or apartment and leave the originals in a safe place.
Bring a present or a souvenir for your Russian woman will only please her, because women always like presents, not for themselves but for the fact that they show your attention. It’s not obligatory to buy something expensive, it may be some simple thing, the only thing you should take into consideration is that it should show clearly that you’ve been thinking about her and her interests while choosing it. Show your woman that your present is meant particularly for her. If she has a child do not forget to bring them something too. You can buy some candies or toys, children are easy to please this way.
